August 28, 2007

I'm decorating, too!

I've been watching a lot of those decorating shows lately, like on my lunch break and when I get off work, then today, I got my Better Homes and Gardens magazine with a ton of ideas...
And I've still been trying to put things together in my apartment, so I took a trip to the store, and found a really cute candle holder thing to hang on the wall.
What do you guys think?
I think it looks pretty cool... just don't know if I should make it a bit higher, or maybe add a few things around it...

Here's a picture with the lights lit...
I had to cover the flash because the lit candles just don't show up with it on, but it looks pretty cool, huh?
I asked Jason what he thought and he said, "it's cool and holds a lot of lights." That's a guy answer for you. But did I really expect anything else? No!
Well, I'm still on a search for other stuff. I also have a few drawings that Natalie did for me in Black and White, so I'm trying to find some really cute picture frames for those, but haven't had much luck, yet. Any ideas?

August 27, 2007

I'm a built-in babysitter

As a younger sister, I am and have been a built-in babysitter for Rachael's kids, but I also know that if I do a good job, then they'll be MY built-in babysitters for my future kids...
It's pretty tough, though.
I was hanging out with Rachael and the kids for about six or so hours on Saturday and just knew that there would be cooking involved! We all started with making and eating lunch, yum. Then I got Jack and Ben to help make the most delicious Peanut Butter Pie (which they all loved, but Katie-doodles) even Kristen got two servings!
Then I made two loaves of home-made bread and we sat down and ate one whole loaf right out of the oven with butter and jam. It was so good!
I think it's really exciting to get the kids involved and have them help me measure, and get the ingredients and help clean and put things away (which doesn't happen too often, at least not often enough for me!) but they all did help clean the kitchen after lunch. Even Ben swept the floor (and me and Kristen re-did) and we all did dishes and loaded the dishwasher and put things away.
It was cool to see all of them working together. And hopefully they'll learn all these cooking and cleaning techniques good enough so that when they get to babysit my future kids, they'll be able to make me yummy goodies and clean up after themselves too!
(I know, Rachael, you don't have to tell everybody that I don't ALWAYS clean up after myself, but at least I make some super yummy food, right?!)

August 23, 2007

Who's coming to dinner?

Dinner was awesome tonight!

I used my KitchenAid for the first time, and made home-made bread, and it was so good! I used Bob's recipe that Shannon gave me and she was right, it is super easy... I'm sure I'll be making a ton more, too.

I haven't had bread that good since Mom and Bob made it the last time... I'm not even sure when that was, either, but I was so excited to spread some butter on the hot-out-of-the-oven bread.

I also made my portobella mushroom lasagna that's so good and ended it with good ol' Cherry Crunch Cake.

Dinner couldn't have been better, and Jason and I had it all to ourselves.

Anyone want to come to dinner?

August 22, 2007

What's with cooking shows?

I'm so suckered into watching shows that have to do with cooking that Jason thinks that Food Network is my favorite channel...
Well, it's close. I also love Bravo because of Top Chef. I'm totally obsessed with this show and the judging and the competitions and the speed of chopping onions and the beauty of the final product on those huge stylish plates.
I love cooking but wish I had a professional dishwasher/kitchen cleaner to take care of everything when I'm done. I also wish I could have people over to my house for dinner, but the practicality of having Rachael and Derrick and all the kids to my small place, just doesn't seem logical.
What I really need to do is to start invited friends over for dinner, but what do I do after that? Watch a movie? Play games? Would anyone actually be interested in such a night? I think a tradition is coming on... maybe a Friday night dinner tradition!
Either way, I just spoke with Jason and I will be making lasagna tomorrow night possibly with some home-made bread and I talked him into the cherry crunch cake for dessert... anyone want to come over?

August 21, 2007

Fried Green Tomatoes

Yesterday, my boss hooked me up with some fresh green tomatoes from his garden. I can't remember the last time I had fried green tomatoes, but decided it'd be a perfect dinner, which I ended up having tonight.
Fried green tomatoes takes me back to one of my favorite movies, "Fried Green Tomatoes" (go figure!) of which book I also read as a preteen. There's nobody like good ol' Idgy Threadgood and her rebellious ways of life.
Either way, I enjoyed my delicious tomatoes fried in Italian bread crumbs and topped with fresh garlic and onions and marinara on the side.
But of course, I had to enjoy it all to myself, tonight...
Now that I think about it, I should have taken pictures... but there's nothing left now!

Now I wish I could go over to Lori's and have some Cherry Crunch Cake she made tonight, but she's at work already. Bummer!

Identity Theft

I've heard stories about friends and relatives that have had their identities stolen but never thought I'd be a culprit of this stressful experience... until today.

Knowing that I have a few bills to pay this week, I checked my bank account online and noticed a $10 transaction in Chicago, Illinois. I haven't been out of the state in over a month and so it caught my attention quite quickly. Only being $10 I wasn't too scared, but I was still concerned.

I called my bank and asked what it was for and they said it was on Sunday morning, and I KNOW I wasn't in Chicago this weekend!

After a little bit of searching, I was told that I had to file a police report before my bank could cancel my bank card and take off the transaction.

So, I called my boss to ask if I could take a little longer lunch to go file a report and get this all taken care of. He said, yes, but also told me that some places bill out of another area, so it could be one of those situations...

And, thankfully, it was! Sure enough, I had gotten gas Sunday morning in Michigan and it was billed out of Chicago. Weird. But I feel a bit better and will continue to keep a close eye on my account from now on!

August 20, 2007

Jojo is 1 year old!

My baby girl, Jojo, turned 1 year old yesterday. My little girl is getting so big! I thought I would make a cake in the shape of a mouse for her, but realized that I would probably be the only who'd eat it, so I decided against it.
But I did get her a few new things. A collar, a special treat dish, play toys, cleaning wipes, and a scratchy thing. She was so excited!

August 19, 2007

Just a few pictures of the kids

I went over to Rachael's house this weekend and took a few pictures of the kids (but Ben was still taking a nap, so he missed out).
Here's a few of them.

Jack, Katya, and Kristen

Jack


Yes, Jack was the only one who let me take a ton of pictures of him and he's such a stud! He'll either be a chef, because he loves cooking with me, or model/actor!

August 17, 2007

Guess what I got today???

I finally got my KitchenAid today! I'm so excited and can't figure out what to make first, or if I should actually use it and potentially get it dirty. But then again, I know it'll eventually be used and eventually get dirty, so why not?
I got it in black because I couldn't decide on a color I would love forever in my kitchen and I didn't want a plain white one.
Cute, huh?

Even Jojo had to check out all the action, I'm sure she thinks I may be making something special for her 1st birthday on Sunday, but I wasn't planning on it... Sorry, Jojima!

August 16, 2007

Pizza, Pizza, Pizza

Jason and I have eaten some super yummy home-made pizza at Lori's house a few times, so I tried making some myself, tonight...
And it was awesome!
The crust was nice and crispy, and I added my favorite toppings like fresh tomatoes, onions, artichoke hearts, and sauteed portobella mushrooms, as well as the usual sauce and cheese and it was so darn good!!!
I guess it was a good thing I split the pizza with Jason, instead of making one for me and one for him!
Thanks, Lori, for the idea!

August 15, 2007

School's starting, again?!?

I just realized that school starts for the kids next week! Wow, I guess that means that the summer's over. Hey, does that mean the heat is done too? I love the fall, and can't wait for it!
But you know what? Just going into Target and seeing all those cool folders, pens, pencils, crayons, markers, and notebooks almost got me in the mood to go back to school, but then I realized that I was done. Can I just buy all the supplies, anyway? Ya think?
Either way, I'm exciting for the kids to start school and exciting to see how Katie-doodles will do this year. I secretly hope she has a project I can help her with, like the one I helped Kristen on about all the planets... that was super fun!

August 13, 2007

To Valet? Or Not To Valet?

So, Jason and I went out last night and decided to go all out and go to valet parking. It was pretty nice not to have to find a parking spot and drive around and around or out in the boonies, until we went to pick it up.
I turned in the voucher and we went outside to wait for my car. We waited and waited until about 20 minutes later, this guy pulls up in a golf cart and asked if I was the one with the Saturn. "Yes, why?" I said. "Well, it has a dead battery, so I'm going to check and see if we have one we can use... is there any kind of trick to start your car?" He asked. "No, just turn the key!"
We waited and waited. And I got more stressed out and remembered how I just got a new battery just less than 6 months ago. Wow, this sucks!
Then, here he comes on his little golf cart, again, and says, well, we don't have any jumper cables... (what? Valet doesn't have any jumper cables? That's weird!) I thought. Then Jason says to him, "well, sometimes you have to push the clutch in kind of hard".
The guy looks at us and asks, "it's a stick shift?"
YES!!! IT IS!!!
"Oh, she didn't say anything about that, she just tried to start it and it wouldn't..."
So, he left as we tried to compose our laughter and waited just a few more minutes until the car drove up.
But, let me tell you...
I AM going to be calling them and complaining!

August 11, 2007

THE BIG 100

1. My full name is Franciska but everyone calls me Francie.
2. I was named after my great-grandma.
3. I tell everyone I talk to on the phone my full name and then when I actually meet them in person, I give them my nick-name.
4. This helps me remember if I've met them personally or not.
5. I'm the only one in my family with two middle names.
6. My dad wanted me to have one of my own.
7. I'm #5 out of 6 kids.
8. 1 boy and 5 girls (and don't be feeling bad for the boy, he was always spoiled!)
9. Most of our childhood, us four younger girls lived in the same room.
10. I also have 2 step-brothers.
11. When I was 13 years old, my brother Ryan got married.
12. My sister Rachael got married.
13. And I became an auntie for the first time to little Ryan.
14. I've lived in 8 states.
15. I've lived in two or more places (house/apartment) in each state but the first one.
16. I've only broken one bone.
17. My right arm.
18. I tried a one-handed cartwheel and then tried to land on one foot.
19. It didn't quite work.
20. It took my mom about 3 days to finally take me to the doctor to see if it was broken.
21. I'm the only one out of us six kids who didn't take piano lessons.
22. The only instrument I tried was the flute.
23. For a week or so.
24. Then I had that cartwheel tragedy.
25. My sister Shannon and I were child back-up singers for a real song "We are the colors of the world" (or something like that...).
26. My sisters Shannon and Lori were in the music video.
27. I'm currently 27
28. Not married.
29. I'm also the only one in my family who's not married.
30. The five others have gotten married in an interesting order.
31. #2, then #1
32. #4, then #3
33. #6, then ME! (well, someday, maybe!)
34. And don't have kids
35. I do have 9 nieces and nephews (and one on the way!)
36. Plus 7 step-nieces and nephews
37. 16 total and in December, I'll have 17 total.
37. If all my siblings end up with kids and I don't, I'll be the auntie to the most kids in my family!
38. I also worry that if I have kids, there won't be any good names left...
39. My mom married Bob
40. A pastor
41. Which makes me a "PK" (pastor's kid)
42. When I was 15 years old
43. Right after the wedding some kids were talking about a movie and when I asked them which one, they said they couldn't tell me because I was now a "PK".
44. I told them I was a step-PK.
45. Bob has been the best/most perfect person in my mom's life.
46. Ever since I realized that, I've been in search for my Bob.
47. I've been dating Jason for almost a year.
48. I think he may just be my Bob.
49. I don't want to get married to just anyone.
50. I want to marry the one.
51. And marry that one only once.
52. I'm in no hurry.
53. I like being right.
54. I want to be right all the time.
55. I have a hard time admitting when I'm wrong.
56. I'm extremely impatient.
57. I hate waiting for anything.
58. I almost get personally offended when people tell me they'll be somewhere at a certain time, but aren't.
59. I've try to not let it bother me too much.
60. If I'm late, I try to think of things to blame it on.
61. i.e. bad directions, had to stop and get gas, or a slow-key-poky in front of me.
62. I wish that people turning right would merge to the right before they turned, instead of staying in the main lane right be turning.
63. I hate silence.
64. The radio is always on in my car.
65. I have a hard time turning it off, even if I'm on the phone.
66. I turn on the TV as soon as I get inside my apartment.
67. It bothers me when I don't finish something.
68. If I'm watching a movie in the theater, and it sucks really bad, I still have a hard time leaving without seeing the rest of it.
69. I guess I also feel that someone is not entitled to have an opinion on something unless they have seen it, experienced it, tried it, etc.
70. I love my toes.
71. I can't stop looking at them when I get a pedicure.
72. Pedicures make me happy.
73. Manicures don't.
74. I tend to mess up any manicure the same day.
75. I used to bite my nails.
76. I also got in trouble for doing it from one of my father's.
77. I bit them even more.
78. I love having blond hair. Me and Shannon are the only ones with blond hair in our family, but I was definitely the toe-head in the family!
79. I've never been able to dye it any other color but more blond.
80. The closest I've got was high and low lights.
81. I like the color of my eyes (blue/grey with specks) but sometimes wish they were really blue like my mom's.
82. I don't think I could move away from this area...
83. I love and am loved.
84. Hanging out with my local nieces and nephews make me happy.
85. Ben has almost mastered the Russian accent and makes me smile.
86. Jack tries to translate what I say to Katya to help her understand me. He's such a cute little helper.
87. Katya is very independent, but when it comes to handing out love (i.e. hugs and kisses) she's right there waiting for my signature "squishy hug" all the kids love.
88. When I hang out with just Kristen, she's such a little pre-teen it amazes me how mature and non-childlike she is! And with all the other kids, I've seen her mom in her, as the older sibling trying to help the auntie out with all the kids.
89. My siblings (aka: built in friends) also make me happy.
90. Rachael's fun to hang out with and when I need a review of anything, i.e. a movie/book/TV show/life... I turn to her for answers.
91. I adored my brother, Ryan. He would mark permanent marker all over my face. I wouldn't get mad. I'd clean his room for free (and charge Lori a dollar). And now, even though he's far away, I still want to make him proud of me.
92. Shannon is probably the most outgoing person in our family. She can stop at the gas station and start a 20-minute conversation with the cashier or have a heart-to-heart with a new friend in the first 5 minutes. Oh, and if there's a way to get a $500 appliance for $10, she'll find it!
93. Lori is the best secret keeper in our family. She also has her special way of telling you what to do without you knowing she just bossed you around.
94. I don't think many things beat going to McDonald's for an ice cream cone with Natalie.
95. I think it's the way she says, "Hey! Want to go get an ice cream cone?!?" It gets me every time!
96. We also have the most history together (and maybe a little too much) but it's cool to remember things like Mrs. Golambus, glow-in-the-dark rubber bands for the braces, UCA, WWC, living in the apartment, etc.
97. Sometimes it shocks me how close my family is.
98. We're not a very touchy family and it's okay.
99. And we do love each other.
100. And I know God has blessed me.

August 9, 2007

"I know you are, but what am I?"

While at Rachael and Derrick's house last night, working on bringing a bunch of stuff upstairs from the soggy bottom basement, we had a discussion on the word/term/slang "Psyche"! Rachael asked me how I would spell it, and I thought it'd be something like "Syke" but was quickly corrected by both of them, that it was short for "psyching someone out" hence: Psyche! I used to use this word all the time, but have never typed/written it down so I had no clue, and I was out on a search to see if they were really right.
I first asked Jason and he agreed with them. Then at lunch today, I asked my friend, Missy, and while she was thinking about it, her 7-year-old son, Jimmy, looked at me and said "p-s-y-c-h-e"! So, I have to admit, I was wrong... I also looked it up online and found that it could be either "psyche" or "sike".

While I was online, I also found a few other words I thought were pretty funny:

Awesome
Bodacious
Bummed
Chill pill
Don't have a cow
Dude
Excellent
Gag me with a spoon
Gnarly
Help... I've fallen and I can't get up! (they still have those commercials on TV!)
I know you are but what am I? (totally peewee!)
Like
Major
Nerd
Not!
Rad
Smooth move ex-lax
Spaz
Stoked
Totally
Wax on, wax off
Way (as in way cool!)
What's happenin' hot stuff?
What you talkin' 'bout Willis?
Whoa! (from Joey on Blossom)
Yo
Your Mama!

August 6, 2007

Last year, today

I don't always have a good memory, but I know what I was doing last year, today.
My friend, Shannon, had met this guy while getting a new pair of glasses and had just enough courage to ask him out to a local comedy night. She did need a little support so she invited me and a few others to go with her and he, Ryan, invited a couple guys of his own (I guess they both needed support!).
I don't remember the comedians or the jokes, but I do remember meeting this hottie, Jason, and how shy and sweet he was, (and how unique and cute his extra long side-burns were!), so I just knew that my outgoing personality would help me get to know this guy a bit more... and it did!
We all hung out and then went outside and sat on some benches to talk and he wanted to give me his phone number, but I told him I wouldn't call him, (I had previously decided, through past experiences, that if I was going to date someone, he would have to be the one to go out of his way to ask me out) so he'd have to get mine and have to call ME! I figured, if it were meant to be, he'll call...
Wow, did he take his time though! I tell you, I couldn't stop thinking about that boy and can't believe he waited about four days or so to call me! But I was patient and believe that things happen for a reason...
And that's how we met!

August 5, 2007

Adventures in Babysitting

As most of you may already know from reading Rachael's blog (my sister), I had the pleasure of babysitting the four little monsters... um, I mean, angels.


Rachael had caught me off guard when she asked me if I could babysit the kids for a few hours, and I didn't have time to find anything else to do, so I said yes, no problem.

I waited at Rachael and Derrick's house, enjoying the quiet house I knew wouldn't last long, before the kids came home from eating ice cream and hanging out with their grandparents. They pounded their way up the steps into the house shortly after 7 p.m. with messy faces and energized for an exciting night, and I knew right then and there that we just HAD to stay busy the entire night, for fear they might get bored and get into trouble!

I called them all to the backyard right away and told them that I had to get pictures of all four of them together because I didn't have any (and I also wanted to prove to Lori, my other sister, that I can still take good pictures on MY camera! Ha-ha), so they told me that we should start on the trampoline, which actually worked out good, and while they still wanted to play and jump around, I remembered, in the back of my mind, that Auntie Lori was working in the ER that night, just in case, but I told all the kids that we weren't going there on my watch.

I then had to use persuasive skills to get them all off the trampoline to take more pictures in the grass as well as assure them, especially Kristen, that there was no doggie doo-doo nearby!

They sure liked the goofy face pictures and I had to take a ton of pictures because SOME were a little more difficult that others to stay looking at the camera until it actually TOOK the picture (don't worry, Ben, I won't tell them who it was...!).

After a few pictures on the play set, the kids starting bickering with each other, which reminded me of my special way of helping them all stay as good as possible. Give them each three pieces of something, usually food such as peaches, apples, potatoes, and onions or whatever we had three each of in the house then when they did something that wasn't good, one was taken away. Once all three of their 'somethings' were gone, they went to bed. Now, if they still had some left when the parents came home, then it was up to the parents to decide when bedtime was... While Kristen, Jack, and Ben were used to this and somewhat excited, it took us a few tries to explain to Katya why she had three potatoes (and that she didn't have to actually eat them) with what Rachael calls "pantomime" (I think that's the word). So, I'd point at Katya and say, "If you're 'ploh-ha' (which means "bad"), then one potato goes away" then I took a potato away. Then did it with all three "ploh-ha, ploh-ha, ploh-ha then bed" where I then laid my head side-ways on my hands and started snoring... I think she got the idea then... ha-ha.

At this point, I figured they probably wouldn't let me finish the book I brought to read, just in case they played innocently by themselves or wanted to just go to bed early or whatever... (which I finished tonight and was really good!), so I decided to take them to one of the nearby pier's to watch the sunset.


(Yes, that's Katya holding Jack up)

With the music turned up, the windows rolled down and all of us kids singing songs together, we all made sure Katya knew how to raise her hands when we go over train tracks (a mini roller-coaster ride of sorts, and I know Natalie knows just how I like to drive over those train tracks! ha-ha). Once we got there, we took pictures and then they all played tag, which turned out to be more like a race between Kristen and Katya!

Then, so the kids felt like they actually chose what activity to do next, I allowed them all to take a vote. Either go home or go to the park... yeah, pretty easy to figure out which one they voted for, huh?

On the way to the park, we then stopped by another place to watch the sun actually set, then made our way to the park, enjoying all the huge slides, merry-go-rounds, monkey bars with real life monkeys (aka: Katya, which I reminded again that we were NOT going to the ER on my watch!). Each kid continued to be really good and obedient and played well together and with all the other park guests too, and I was so proud of them!

Finally, when it started getting a bit too dark, I rounded up the troops and we headed home to the sweet sound of Jack starting the kids off with the cutest rendition of "Jesus Loves Me" chimed in by Ben, Katya, and then me and Kristen.

The kids also started opening ALL their candy we got at the gas station... oh, they were so cute, each was able to pick out one snack and one drink, Ben and Katya (who I've nick-named Katie-doodles) had the most trouble picking out a yummy snack so I 'helped' them like my mom 'helped' us all out when we were kids, making sure they picked out the right candy I just knew would be perfect for them. Ben = Snickers (yum!) and Katya = M&M's (she asked me if the ones in the orange bag were good, but I told her they were peanut butter M&M's and if she didn't like PB&J's then she wouldn't like those either, thank goodness, I like the plain ones WAY better!)

Jack was trying to be sensible and asked me what I would suggest without sugar, because he had had too much already, he said. How cute! But he left with a Hershey bar. And of course, each child left a little something-something in my car to help me remember the time I got all the kids food snacks and let them eat in my car.

Getting back to the house felt like the end of Adventures in Babysitting, the movie... rush and get pj's on, brush teeth, and then attempt to scrub all the dirt off their dirty feet in the tub, without making a mess!

We then made it just in time to the living room to read one and a half bedtime stories when the parents walked in to send them all to bed... I told them all to be good and go to bed or their parents wouldn't let me babysit anymore, then I gave them all little hug-kisses and made sure I thanked Kristen for babysitting me, which gave me the cutest facial expression!

Wow, what a night! I think I was more tired then they were, but I talked to Rachael, and while they may have gone to bed a little late, my bad, they actually stayed in bed too!

I'm not too sure if they really will let me babysit or if I really will want to again, but I did have fun and even when I was done, I still couldn't think of anything I could have been doing besides being an Auntie and capturing the mischievous adorable looks on each of 'the kids' faces...
Here's a few more cute pictures...
Self-portrait: us in the car, ready for a super fun adventure!

Jack: what a little hottie!


Katie-doodles: what a cutie!

Katya: on top of the monkey bars, when I told her that we were NOT going to the ER on my watch! Ben and Jack

Ben: attempting the big climb!



Kristen: what a cute little lady!

The sunset: I think it was worth dragging four kids out to see something this beautiful!


August 2, 2007

What gives you inspiration?

I'm sending out a question to all my readers. What gives you inspiration?

It could be a color, a book, a friend, an act, a comment...

Basically, I've found things that can be inspiring, such as someone telling me they just read a good book which then inspires me to read one.
But for some reason, I've found that I need some inspiration. I want to do something. Something different, something fun, something that may make me a better person, something that can encourage others, something... like a hobby, maybe!?!

Give me ideas. Give me your experiences.

Marriage

One of my favorite movie lines is "Marriage, marriage is true love" from the Princess Bride. Speaking of this M word...

Why is it that once someone (and not all) gets married, they cut off all non-married friends? I know this doesn't always happen, but I have a friend that just recently got married and since then we've only hung out two or three times (in a month and a half!).
I've called her and asked to hang out on the weekend, but she says, "well, my husband is coming home this weekend and so I won't be able to hang out until after 8 p.m. on Sunday night. I'll have to give you a call then, okay?"

What's screaming through my head?
"No! It's not okay?
There's no reason why we ALL can't hang out? There's no reason why you two can't go out to dinner with another couple and socialize! What kind of marriage is this, anyway?"

Why? Why? Why?
Why does someone choose to have this kind of married life? Neither one of my sister's has such a marriage... they are open to having fun with others, socializing with others, they don't have to be connected to the hip with THEIR husbands, and it's okay!!!

Jason also has a friend similar to mine and it's like he fell off the face of the earth! I can't imagine living like that and being happy, and I'm glad that I can choose, that I can be happy, and have my own life along with dating someone. And if I ever do get married, I'm NOT going to be a non-socializing person who wants to only hang out with my husband and not have my own life...

Just thought I'd share a few thoughts...